TIPS ON HOW TO STAY FAITHFUL IN A RELATIONSHIP

by cool ruff Tue Aug 04, 2009 11:07 pm

Cheatin ways are almost guaranteed to not only stress a relationship but kill it. Dealing with temtation is hard but what could be even worse is the knowlegde that we will all have to face it some point of our relationships. Turning down an affair is easy to do when the loving is good. However, when things are rocky with our sweetie, its then that miss or mister wrong seem so right. However, forewarmed is forearmed. With the following steps you can fend off identidelity & keep that greener grass where it belongs.....

THINGS YOULL NEED:

=====> PATIENCE

=====>HONESTY

=====>INNER STRENGHT

=====>GOOD FOUNDATION

INSTRUCTIONS:

1.Keep a realistic outlook. Reltionships can seems like dimmest & darkest when your stressed at home, at work & tired. When you get into this zone, back off, take a breath & get some rest. This will let you a clearer picture of how things are keep you from making any bad decisions.

2.Build your foundation. Temptations test the foundation of a relationship.
Build it by spending quality time together, communicating, tending to one anothers sexual needs & relying on each other. If your foundation is weak, temptation will find its way in.

3.Realize its weak work. Realizing that relationship take work will keep you from the "stickershock" when things get tough & you have to put in extra effort. Its the moments that things get difficult that were at our lowest resestance to other people & the posibility of cheating. Realize it takes work & there will be bad days.

4.Explore together. Exploring together does two things: its help you build a life together & it keeps you spend time together. Infidelity finds it hooks in weak foundations & too much solitary time. As you explore together, youll start to create traditions, find common likes & develop activities that are both of yours. This will leave little room for creeping vines of another person.

5.AVOID TEMPTATION. The old saying says " the best way to avoid temptation is to avoid it". While the cutey at the coffee shop or ex suddenly in town or the friend from school may seem harmless now, when things get rough in the relationship, they can seem like really good bad ideas. You know who causes butterflies in you so keep that person at bay. Especially if they know thier effect on you.

6.Tend to all aspects of the relationship. Infidelity often looks for the weak areas of your relationship. Whatever its financial stress, lack of quality time, sexual differences, make sure that you find the trouble areas & address them. Communicate with your partner to mutually work together to build up your relationship deffences.

THANKS FOR READING..........

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